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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Sat Mar 16, 2013 9:30 pm

    So, remember how you guys told me to move on from that other person that I liked? Well, I sorta did?

    Anyways, me and this other girl went out to the movies the other night as friends and everything was pretty cool, like I'd call it successful since she didn't pull out her phone constantly. I paid for the movie and she paid for the dinner, also ordering me my favorite pasta, :3.

    That was all fun and all, but my question is whether or not she'd be interested in me or not. Like, I'm pretty sure she's at least bi since I'm pretty sure she and another girl kissed before and stuffs, but I think that she still likes the other one...

    Should I try? Like, do you guys think I have a chance at all?
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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Mon Mar 18, 2013 3:57 pm

    I have one week left to prove myself... And actually get the courage to ask her... Heh.

    Wish me luck!


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    Post by Fåbûløūš on Mon Mar 18, 2013 7:57 pm

    Good luck winter!
    You'll do great!
    She has to say yes!
    You are amazing Very Happy


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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Mon Mar 18, 2013 10:13 pm

    I really hope so!

    But what if she likes someone else?
    What if she doesn't like me?
    What if she doesn't even like girls? ._.

    I'm freaking out.

    Oh, and earlier today I texted her 'do you trust me' cause, like, I meant if she trusted me to drive her, but she still hasn't responded.... ._. #dying


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    Post by Fåbûløūš on Mon Mar 18, 2013 10:15 pm

    Whoa there girl
    Don't doubt yourself, it only ruins confidence
    I mean, what if she does like you?
    Second guessing yourself doesn't do any good.
    And lets say she doesn't
    Not the end of the world
    There is always that one, right person out there for you
    And if she isn't that one person, then don't sweat it.
    Your perfect half will show herself in time.


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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Mon Mar 18, 2013 10:24 pm

    I worry about everything... Probably a bad habit...

    But what if she doesn't?

    Like, it's her senior year and if I screw this up she might not eer talk to me again as a friend and I don't want to lose that either...


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    Post by Fåbûløūš on Mon Mar 18, 2013 10:29 pm

    I understand how you feel Winter. I had the same thing happen to me.
    The girl I liked, I thought she liked me back. But I was scared to tell her, in fear I would get rejected.
    I still wanted to be friends, and was scared senseless.
    I told her. And she didn't feel the same way.
    But she said that we would always be friends.
    If she is a true friend, then you know, even if she doesn't likm you in 'that way' She will stick by your side till the end.
    Being nervous is understandable.
    And perfectly okay.
    Being careless and not even slightly nervous would be bad.
    But getting all ancy and worked up is also bad.
    Let things fall into place. Fate has a amazing way of working everything out.
    Don't worry winter, your amazing ^^ Anyone would be lucky to get with you.


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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Mon Mar 18, 2013 10:35 pm

    Thank you Ghostie, and now I feel like an awful person for even talking to you about my problems ._.

    That really helps, thanks! Now how do I actually ask her out... Like, I'm honestly a true romantic and when things go wrong I freak. I'm literally a dreamer that can't deal with the real world.

    Like, how do I even ask her... D:

    *planning*


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    Post by Fåbûløūš on Mon Mar 18, 2013 10:38 pm

    Lol xD
    Nah, it's fine. Sometimes you just need to vent, am I right?
    And that's why we are all here ^^
    We want to help you out!
    And, I can't help you there. Only in middle school. Only way I have ever asked someone out was through Facebook xD
    How I asked my past boyfriend out, and how I told the one girl I liked, that I liked her ^^'
    But I'm sure however you do, it will go fine :3
    Good luck to you Winter!


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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Mon Mar 18, 2013 10:44 pm

    I'm in high school and I've never had a boyfriend(for obvious reasons...) or girlfriend.

    Oh... And did I tell you I'm on a time limit? I have till the end of the week to ask her...

    Cause currently we're in study hall and I'm leaving her next trimester for a class... We do the same sportish thing, but we're on different teams.... I'd hang with her after school, but he car died... And I have something going on then...

    So, if we get a snow day tomorrow I'll only have three days left with her... ._. i'm a tad stressed.


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    Post by Fåbûløūš on Mon Mar 18, 2013 10:49 pm

    Yet again, I wish you the best of luck!
    //Can't think of anything else to say//

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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Tue Mar 19, 2013 10:13 am

    We had a snow day...

    3 days left...

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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Tue Mar 19, 2013 8:39 pm

    Hmmm.... Should i ask her on a date, or to prom?

    The first one sounds nice, and I could take as long as I want really.

    The second one sounds sorta scary, because it'd be more public and I haven't told any of my friends, but it's around that time to be asking people and if I don't, I'm afraid someone else might... Or she might ask someone...


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    Post by horsewolfgriffingirl on Wed Mar 20, 2013 8:36 pm

    Good luck Winter! You should ask her on a date, and if it works, then prom. Prom would be a little bit much for the first time, I think. But that's just me. Smile
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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Wed Mar 20, 2013 10:08 pm

    I didn't do it...

    I chickened out at the last minutr. We were at practice and I told her I had a question so she was like, 'alright'. But, later she was taking a really long time to leave, so I left. But that's also because she was driving someone else home who I happen to know has a past with the girl I like... And like, it would've been awkward, so I left... I have two days left now...


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    Post by horsewolfgriffingirl on Thu Mar 21, 2013 4:24 pm

    Don't worry about chickening out! It happens to the best of us. Next time, just take a breath and remind yourself that even if she says no (which she won't, I am sure) only your opinion of yourself matters, and the world will not end. Smile Good luck!
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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Thu Mar 21, 2013 6:31 pm

    I asked her... In latin... Heh. But she didn't say no.... She said 'give me time' but she said it while grinning and stuff so I guess I still have a chance?

    Actually, what happened was that I told her the latin words at the end of class, she ttanslated them and then got confused. Afterwards, she approached me asking what I meant, so I danced around the subject a bit there, and then when it was time to leave, I pulled her aside and she asked what the words meant in english. I told her. So then, she asked, "Like how? Like... Girlfriend...?" I nodded and then she said "Can I have some time?" So I said yes. This whole time she was smiling or something, I'm not sure if she was serious or not though....


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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Fri Mar 22, 2013 10:38 pm

    They said no... Meh, it's cool though.


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    Post by Fåbûløūš on Fri Mar 22, 2013 10:41 pm

    //reads everything//
    OMG you asked her? And she said give me time? Okay... not bad.
    And by they, do you mean her? And if so

    AAWWWWWWWWWW //cried// I'm sorry hun ):


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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Sat Mar 23, 2013 10:23 am

    Whatever happens happens I guess.
    It's cool though since she later sent me these;

    "I'm bad with words okay. And I had to think about it last night
     I get nervous and I start to over think things and I don't like hurting people or seeing the outcomes of rejection. I get scared of the reaction which is why I couldn't say it."

    I thought that that was sweet and the fact that she actually considered my feelings was really sweet too.

    So, then I was like, 'Alright, let's just pretend it never happened.' So, she sent me this;

    "It never happened. Right. And I really am sorry. But if I didn't consider you a close friend I would've at least tried. :/"

    So like, I get that she doesn't want to ruin our friendship, but does this mean she might've if she took more of a risk?


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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Sun Mar 24, 2013 8:47 am

    Should I try again?


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    Post by horsewolfgriffingirl on Sun Mar 24, 2013 10:41 pm

    I'm sorry she said no! And you should keep trying, but don't push it, or she'll get creeped out, and you might sound desperate.
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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Mon Mar 25, 2013 7:29 am

    Alright! Cause what I was thinkin is that; did she really deny me because she just plain foesn't like me, likes someone else, or doesn't want to ruin our friendship? Cause if it's the last one then I'm not accepting it. After all, from now on, we're only going to see each other for like, ten minutes every morning and therefore I'm not buying the friend thing since we won't be friends much longer, well, not like how we were.


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    Post by horsewolfgriffingirl on Tue Mar 26, 2013 5:12 pm

    How did it go if you don't mind my asking? :3
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    Post by ωιитεяβεяяγ on Tue Mar 26, 2013 8:21 pm

    I didn't do it yet, I'm going to give her some more time.

    But, when I do, what should I do?


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